I’ve learned over the years that following your initial thoughts on things, can deem the best for you. There is nothing wrong with listening to others for advice, or to hear their thoughts on the matter. But when you know that you may have the answers, go for what you know. There is no need to wait around to hear what others have to say if you think you’re certain. There are certain people who will help lead you in the right direction, and there are others who can help lead you, but won’t. Everyone is not PRO YOU. Its okay to listen to yourself. If a mistake is made, at least you’ll know that YOU made the mistake on your own and not by listening to someone who has lead you astray. Stick to your guns, believe in yourself and your actions always. If you can’t work hard for you, then who’s willing?